Optimistic Sanity

The quickest way to get someone’s attention is to no longer want it!!

*Bad decisions, Good intentions*.

dearoldlove:

Thank you for giving me a glimpse of who I could have become with you; it makes me much more grateful for who I am without you.

Any time I’ve spent on Cloud Nine was because of you. Thanks.

~Dear Old Love

Being smart at anything means that you have to get uncomfortable.

Being relationship smart means at times you will make mistakes & errors in judgment but in being conscious about you & your interactions, you adapt your behavior & learn from it, instead of repeating it & hoping it’ll work itself out without you getting uncomfortable.

~NML

Everything is contextual in relationships so anything that you think about someone needs to be related back to the context of you and the relationship - e.g There’s no point in saying how kind they are to others if it’s not a quality that you get to experience.

~NML

Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.  Relax, and life becomes simple again.

Have a life. Don’t be one of those people that ‘disappears’ every time they’re in a relationship. You’ve met someone - Should that mean other areas of your life cease being important? Don’t neglect friends, family, interests, or even work just because you’ve met someone & are getting a bit of action. Not making your partner your source of everything makes you personally secure, avoids codependency & gives balance.

~NML

BS begets BS. If we don’t like the BS, the buck stops at us to clear it out.

~NML

The key to happiness is not to have what you want but to want what you have.
- Anonymous

You can not find happiness by chasing after it. Happiness comes from doing what you love to do, and from being who you truly are.

~JLH